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There is no API method for removing connections from manager.
Reporter: if you still request this enhancement please set the priority to something higher, e.g. P3. Otherwise please close the issue.
I can live without it. What I did was - find DataObject for connection to remove in Databases/Connections, and than delete that DataObject.