Product Version = NetBeans IDE 7.1.1 (Build 201203012225)
Operating System = Windows 7 version 6.1 running on amd64
Java; VM; Vendor = 1.7.0_03
Runtime = Java HotSpot(TM) 64-Bit Server VM 22.1-b02
(I did have a backup.)
It happens the same on version 7.2.1.
Fixed. Thank you for reporting.
Integrated into 'main-golden', will be available in build *201301290001* on http://bits.netbeans.org/dev/nightly/ (upload may still be in progress)
User: Jaroslav Havlin <firstname.lastname@example.org>
Log: #211047: Confirm deletion (of database or connection) in Services/Databases